reborn
Introduction
applying.stackexchange.com
如何帮助“留学问答项目”度过Commitment阶段？
留学问答项目遭到质疑
留学问答项目进入“Commitment”阶段
area51@stackexchange 使用手记
StackExchange: 留学申请问答
Daily
A Revolution without China
A Niels Bohr Quotation
ttteiwr
Do You Want to See a Ghost?
Are You a Bad Speller?
How to Obtain a nearly Complete Anonymity Online?
A nice Chrome Extension: Smart Word(单词圣手)
How much time do you really have?
Hope it’s the last night of firework extravaganza in this year
Introducing danwei.com
A further explanation
I once misused twitter (opinion)
Don’t buy bullshits
What’s Wrong with “I want to get only what’s needed”?
Figure out Your Boundary
Why Smart People are Getting Smarter?
A Matter of Scope
What do we and pigeons have that are in common?
Are you unique?
FAQ问答集
留学申请常见问答集（Application FAQ）
SAT考试常见问答集（SAT FAQ）
GRE考试常见问答集（GRE FAQ）
托福考试常见问答集（TOEFL FAQ）
GMAT考试准备
GMAT考试准备（八）Argument (5) 用问题列表刺激自己思考
GMAT考试准备（七）Argument (4) 解构
GMAT考试准备（六）Argument (3) Counterexamples and Counter-explanations
GMAT考试准备（五）AWA Argument (2) Alternative Explanation
GMAT考试准备（四）AWA Argument (1) 第一次试水
GMAT考试准备（三）说理的要素
GMAT考试准备（二）基本备考资料
GMAT考试准备（一）GMAT要考多少分？
uncategorized
无题
原来Disqus也被部分墙掉了……
长期大量收购BTC
艾德睿智国际教育咨询高薪诚聘留学咨询顾问
Neo Office
使用macbook
Hello world! All About Apple!
Five Paths to Understanding the Brain
Bells of Freedom (Bon Jovi)
@dupola的字明显是练过的
PLOGit活动——参加我的小组貌似最容易得奖
2010年我个人的十大愿望
看图不说话
笑来教育咨询（上海）有限责任公司 招聘
诚聘英语教师（北京艾德睿智国际教育咨询有限公司）
推荐：《锤子和钉子》by刘未鹏
曲解（外一则）
招聘实习生
“留学论坛”诚招版主
lixiaolai.com更换机房完毕
12月25日网站维护
网站www.lixiaolai.com访问调查（更换新机房）
Theme出了问题
臭臭和屁屁
正式启用英文版博客【www.lixiaolai.com】
Langlib第二期体验者招募
10分钟让你全面了解当前世界金融危机(转贴)
（调查贴）关于英语音标
2008美国总统竞选辩论第一轮
再次推荐firefox+gladder
美国人真穷啊！
你想把你的托福成绩再提高一些么？
好玩好玩
course.com.cn开放注册
分类方法
（转贴）灾难来自侥幸
就是有人不一样
重生之后的再生
善良的人会承担来历不明的罪过
哀
TOEFL iBT 高分作文（配套录音）
重生
历史有时越远越清晰
不经意间已成罪人
震
留学申请与托福考试
并不排除你是天才的可能性
知道有时不见得是好事儿
The Best: Accidental Discoveries
You can’t always get what you want…
破事儿
抛弃金山词霸
美国留学见闻
招聘
1.5 美国研究生教育简介之职业领域
1.4 美国研究生教育简介之学术领域
Powerful Sleep中文版(更新)
Greasemonkey 新手常见问题
嘿嘿
Video and Audio
Death – A Yale Open Course Lecture
两个TTC的中国历史课程
10 Days That Unexpectedly Changed America
PBS – The Secrets of Mind
推荐《Discovering Psychology》
How Art Made the World – BBC
Justice: What’s the Right Thing to Do? Course
一分钟改变生活——我是谁？
终极问题无所不在
谁是客观存在？
我是谁？
书——不得不看
这些书终于在当当网上架了！
读《动物庄园》
The Freedom of the Press by George Orwell
On Bullshit by Harry Frankfurt
It’s a Book Written for Children, but …
Brain Bugs
《新托福iBT词汇分类突破》PDF版完整公开
How to lie with statistics
Freakonomics (2010)
推荐《Rework》by 37signals
公开课（Open Courses）有那么神么？
BabelCollege.com推出“公开笔记”功能
Management Rewired by Charles S. Jacobs
Why We Make Mistakes by Joseph T. Hallinan
适合自己的书只能靠自己找
Developing Story Ideas by Michael Rabiger
Kindle 3更帅更便宜
旧文重贴：如何选书
Freakonomics and SuperFreakonomics
推荐到香港考SAT的高一学生买Kindle
《英语阅读参考手册》已上市
Everyday Survival: Why Smart People Do Stupid Things
如何收集好书
电子书读起来真的没感觉么？
思考改变生活──推荐《Using Social Theory: Thinking through Research》
别说，还真有，还是名著
最近看的一些关于Brain Science的视频、音频和文字
绝对值得订阅的RSS
The Brain That Changes Itself
Listening-the Forgotten Skill
这下可有得看了！
吐血推荐Michael Shermer的The Skeptic Encyclopedia of Pseudoscience
从一本好书说开去
100 Greatest Discoveries – Bill Nye
Justice – What’s the right thing to do 视频讲座的srt格式英文字幕
Thomas Sowell也有新书《The Housing Boom and Bust》
Malcolm Gladwell又出新书《What the dog saw – and other adventures》
什么是unintended consequences
真是神奇
让你的LDOCE5更顺手
BRAIN THAT CHANGES ITSELF
Longman Dictionary of Contemporary English 5th Edition
《我是一只IT小小鸟》
关于Oxford Collocation Dictionary (2ed)
马基雅维利只不过以他独有的冷静看到了真相，却因为说了出来而被诅咒……
如何拥一个像Umberto Eco教授的私人图书馆一样的甚至更好的图书馆
《把时间当作朋友》在china-pub.com登上销售排行排名第一：谢谢大家支持
读与品
推荐：《为什么中国人勤劳而不富有》
拜见叶永昌教授
人们为什么那么缺乏远见？
Joseph M. Williams的几本书
豆列是个好东西
推荐豆列《Wonderful Audiobooks》
为什么引进书籍的翻译普遍都很差？
听电子书有多过瘾
Nassim Nicholas Taleb的两本书
推荐陆谷孙先生主编的《英汉大词典》
推荐：100 Greatest Science Discoveries of All Time
下周一出院
How to Argue and Win Every Time by Gerry Spence
一本好书：English Grammar Workbook for DUMMIES
为什么“牛奶可乐经济学”在中国成了畅销书？
读《激荡三十年》
关于《罗伯特议事规则》
推荐另一本好语法书：《Collins COBUILD英语语法大全》
《平壤——朝鲜之旅》PyongYang, A Journey In North Korea by Guy Delisle, Multivac翻译
重读《Lies My Teacher Told Me – by James W. Loewen》
Mean Genes – From Sex to Money to Food: Taming Our Primal Instincts by Terry Burnham & Jay Phelan
徐复观忆熊十力先生“起死回生的一骂”
那只鸡半夜的时候到底叫还是没叫？
《新编英语阅读手册》
好得要命的文字
人物
Jobs is an artist
这个孩子姓赵
Who’s Rube Goldberg?
抽空看看吧，看看真正的好老师究竟是什么样的……
高耀洁：面朝南方，向南都鞠躬
[日]大前研一：《专业主义》
这样的母亲很伟大
Grandmother Courage
有一些人其实你应该知道
作文素材
Writing Tips from Oakley Hall
censorship
写清楚（系列）
坚持原则有多不容易
在english-in-use.com上建了一个英语写作练习区
创造力在今天是否比过往任何时候都更必要？
写作文找不到例子怎么办？(TOEFL/SAT/GRE/GMAT)
英文书面比较句的写法（八）
英文书面比较句的写法（七）
英文书面比较句的写法（六）
英文书面比较句的写法（五）
英文书面比较句的写法（四）
英文书面比较句的写法（三）
英文书面比较句的写法（二）
英文书面比较句的写法（一）
如何写好文章（十分钟重修语文）
Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell
天天用英语
学会用GOOGLE做research
没有输入就没有输出
少即是多（Less is more.）
写作恐惧症（Scriptophobia）
学习学习再学习
学习学习再学习
普通人跑步的要点
一直后悔可以学却没有学会的东西：手绘
没学会自己读书会吃多大的亏？
“免费”往往并非零成本
“牛角尖”收集贴
未知的必然、必要和必需
强人高手
一句话的力量
不一样
History of 毛衣歌
卢安克，我们爱你！
Unspoken
翻页动画 地球进化史
给自己做了张名片
征集同类图片
邵小毛：现象2009
王佩的海盗电台
进化的方向是？
John Wooden on True Success
管理的境界
因父之名：一个“非科班”的成长史（转贴）
TED Talk 有字幕了……
发展（外一则）
另一个“10分钟让你全面了解当前世界金融危机”——The Crisis of Credit Visualized by Jonathan Jarvis
Nearly Everything in Plain English by commoncraft
Amazing Things About Everything
Simon’s Cat ‘Let Me In!’
YouTube Star: Amy Walker
Matt究竟在哪里？
思维工具
人与事如何区分？
字里行间
把常识当成信仰
本末倒置
先存后取，天经地义
忘我
读书可以慢一点的重要理由
如何摆脱强烈的情绪？
那些悄悄植入我们脑子的观念（Inception?）
盲目状态
最少必要知识
权威是什么东西，质疑权威又是什么东西？
没有例子行不行？
如何分辨区别？
其实只不过是差了一步而已
其实，这世界也是有心的
人生是一场长跑，但你想明白了么？
视角问题
一辈子给自己打工
阅读的时候走神怎么办？
当“扬长避短”成为借口
“我怎么才想到呢！”
背诵大量文本的诀窍
如何避免冲动
要做那种你非常非常相信的事
Don’t judge too quickly
不要害怕犯错
学会倾听（五）帮助讲者进入“倾诉”状态
学会倾听（四）运用多余的处理能力，我们能做什么，该做什么？
学会倾听（三）为了有效倾听，最不应该做的是什么？
学会倾听（二）自知总是最好的起点
学会倾听（一）脑子太快不一定总是好事
好例难寻
以未来为导向是个好策略
忍受未知很重要
为什么人们常常会鄙视甚至憎恨与自己不同的人？
真相从未精彩
小心自己的感觉
苏格拉底为什么喜欢跟小孩说事儿
人们为什么总是粗心大意？
今天你装了么？
从“双盲测试”说开去
如何把道理讲清楚的同时又不令人厌烦
为什么我认为所谓“职业（匹配度）测试”几乎100%是扯淡？
How To Think Logically
站在他人角度考虑问题有的时候可能是整个社会都做不到的事情
有效阅读基本技能：分辨事实与看法（A Fundamental Skill of Active Reading: Seperating Opinions from Facts）
An example of Active Reading: 有效阅读一例 —— Google时代不再需要背东西了么？
“Thanks, but no thanks” = “no.” —— 用Google解决问题
看得到、想明白，与说清楚
常识、知识与智慧
必须自学的根本原因
心存疑惑之时，1%>99%
“过早优化”是万恶之源……
留学申请：如何防止意外
“How Projects Really Work” 出第二版了
如何找到属于自己的兴趣？
一句话训练自己“融会贯通、举一反三”的能力
求知欲也需要克制？
何谓“心智”
再谈如何记笔记
老师应该如何回答“你怎么知道你就是对的？”
遇到SB怎么办？
领导者的六种管理风格
最重要最基本的阅读知识
两个故事
习得之后……
感觉有多不可靠
如何克服紧张？
成功的诀窍
如何面对非议（兼某读者问）
效率低下的根源——回避困难
关于自律
好学生的品质
柳暗花明之后
如何培养自信？
把活交给专业人士是不是更省时间？
为什么有些东西看起来容易得同时却实际上那么难学？
为什么大家都努力，最终却有更多的人不成功？
罗素——自由思想十诫
如何迅速提高阅读理解能力
拨云见日
姿势带来快感？
通过写字获得解放
15 Answers to Creationist Nonsense中译版
做出优秀的笔记
想明白（系列）
怎样有效处理多任务？
“中国彩市开出第一巨奖，111注狂揽5.7亿”——这个新闻是什么意思？
说服的第一要素
说出来就轻松了吗？
每个人都有自己的想法，是么？
为什么要格外努力？
小聪明大糊涂者的时髦称呼
关于举证责任（四）
关于举证责任（三）
关于举证责任（二）
关于举证责任 (一)
如何理解别人说的话？
口水仗的根源究竟是什么？
悬赏10万人民币──关于“背英文词典”的传说
“要是早知道就好了……”
燃放烟花爆竹就是陋习
“术业有专攻”和“功夫在行外”
推荐几个关于逻辑推理的网址
如何甄别自己真正的兴趣
人生只有一个状态——在路上
两个相当危险的假定
我们需要的是道理，而不仅仅是感悟
关于Urban Legends
爱死互联网了
这不是解决问题的成本，而是思考模式的成本
想那么多不累么？——很累的！
是我们的反应，还是鳄鱼的反应
安心作人并不容易
“自以为是”也有好处
怎样扭曲掉自己的世界？从某乙老师说开去……
成熟的标志（2）：正确理解、认真对待来自他人的批评
如何赢得他人的尊重
成熟的标志：更多地想“我有什么”而不是“我要什么”
一个常见句子中的谬误“……难道就没有一点可取之处？”
什么叫“脑子清楚”？
讨论问题的基本技巧——锁定问题本身
提高会议效率的关键——只提建设性意见的
如果你遇到这种情况，会怎样选择呢？（四）
如果你遇到这种情况，会怎样选择呢？（三）
如果你遇到这种情况，会怎样选择呢？（二）
如果你遇到这种情况，会怎样选择呢？（一）
如何面对孤独
想明白（补缺）
重写《把时间当作朋友》
撞到“鬼”了？还是撞到自己了？
为什么越来越忙？
想明白（之二十三）
想明白（之二十二）
想明白（之二十一）
想明白（之二十）
想明白（之十九）
想明白（之十八）
想明白（之十七）
想明白（之十六）
唉，我就再耐心点
想明白（之十五）
想明白（之十四）
想明白（之十三）
想明白（之十二）
想明白（之十一）
想明白（之十）
想明白（之九）
想明白（之八）
想明白（之七）
想明白（之六）
想明白（之五）
想明白（之四）
想明白（之三）
想明白（之二）
想明白（之一）
笨没关系，自知就好
我要问笑来
babelcollege.com 英语问答社区上线
新概念教材挺好，但也没必要将它神话
是多学习，还是多与人打交道？
答《把时间当作朋友》一读者问
发音不地道怎么办？
各式各样的暑假课程和交换项目基本上对留学申请都没有帮助
男女有别？
回复几位读者
做事要实在，尤其是自己的事儿
欠债还钱，偷懒偿命
逻辑入门
做计划时要考虑未知因素
有什么可矛盾的？
一切都靠积累的意思是……
诱人的更可能是陷阱
又是一个受害者
语言学习这东西，只要练习了，就肯定有进步
问题太笼统，只好大概回复
工具与任务
如何看Youtube
“某本书好不好”的问题最不适合问那本书的作者
谁说我们改变不了这个世界？——其实只是需要一些智慧
……心情复杂
也不是第一次遇到……
对自己要求高点没什么不好
改变现状要从接受现状开始做起
人生是一幅钢笔画
别怕，到哪儿都得靠自己……
考GRE要不要背单词书？
作文写不好根本不是因为没有人改，而是因为自己做得太少
关于”the”
千万不要轻举妄动……
关于文风
某种意义上，翻译是不可避免的
这样的时候还真的只需要再坚持一下
关于高中生的交流项目
怎么用中文就怎么用英文——语言的原理是相通的
也许应付谁都行，可是应付自己干什么？
无论是谁都是在错误中不断成长
只要不断使用自然就会熟练
无论干啥“怕麻烦”就完了……
基础很重要
机经？模板？靠这些就能打高分，见鬼了
提问应该具体，否则没法回答……
天哪，这你也敢信！
GT成绩很重要，努力吧
不满现状才要更努力
一位读者所遭遇的托福考试
应该不是幻觉，继续努力就是了……
读者提问常让我自卑——“难句”一例
这事儿只能靠自己，没人能帮你
谢谢！
这么高深的问题问我实在是太高估我了……
走自己的路，让别人说去吧——这句话其实真的不是装蛋
关于托福口语的练习方法
关于《剑桥中级英语词汇 》
扎扎实实地学习才是王道
连作弊的人都恨作弊，但作弊的人怎么就那么多呢？
如果一切属实，只能说明一个问题：你是正常人
拼写太差怎么办？
入党是否影响出国？
坚持三个月之后一切都会变得容易起来……
重要的是你有什么，而不是你想要什么
请读者发表看法：有人作弊怎么办？
永恒的问题：背单词背到什么时候是个头？
创业？创业！创业。创业……
这个问题不太好回答：遇到弱智的人怎么办？
提问者有进步……
顶尖商学院MBA申请最常见误区
英语学习：怎么做到想说什么就能说什么？
TopLanguage群里的一个话题回复：关于“如何拉回神游的自己”
举证责任
内向、外向与语言表达能力
好心办坏事儿
去他妈的户口
今天收到的雷人的邮件
答三封来信
勉为其难的一个回答
借用冉老师的签名档：日拱一卒不期速成
销售的关键
什么时候都不晚
关于职业
长岁数和长大是两回事儿
关于音标与发音
那些想法哪儿来的？
三十多岁——正好重新开始
为什么一定要“大胆、自信”？
这不是我干的，是Google干的……
何谓“转载”何非“转载”
人脉？
“概念”比什么都重要
答一读者之问
留学咨询辅导的作用究竟是什么？
留学申请之心态问题
关于奖学金的一些事实
学习是一辈子的事情，什么时候开始都不晚
GRE多少分够用，以及GRE成绩的重要程度
去美国读研究生和去英国读研究生，哪个比较好？
先考试，还是先弄清楚喜好？
找例子玩
“People in positions of power are most effective when they exercise caution and restraint in the use of that power.”
“Contemporary technology makes available many small pieces of factual information. As a result, people have become so preoccupied with bits of fragmented information that they pay too little attention to the larger issues and overall perspectives.”
“Many people believe that a few individuals or small groups (family, friends, teachers, celebrities, for example) have caused them to think and behave in the way they do. Yet it is always society as a whole that defines us and our attitudes, not a few individuals.”
“Reform is seldom brought about by people who are concerned with their own reputation and social standing. Those who are really in earnest about reforming a government, an educational system, or any other institution must be willing to be viewed with disdain by the rest of the world.”
“National governments should devote more of their social programs and services to children than to adults.”
“If a society is to thrive, it must put its own overall success before the well-being of its individual citizens.”
“Only by being forced to defend an idea against the doubts and contrasting views of others does one really discover the value of that idea.”
“There are two types of laws: just and unjust. Every individual in a society has a responsibility to obey just laws and, even more importantly, to disobey and resist unjust laws.”
“Although many people think that the luxuries and conveniences of contemporary life are entirely harmless, in fact, they actually prevent people from developing into truly strong and independent individuals.”
“The stability of a society depends on how it responds to the extremes of human behavior.”
“It is necessary for everyone to read poetry, novels, mythology and other types of imaginative literature.”
“Many of the world’s lesser-known languages are being lost as fewer and fewer people speak them. The governments of countries in which these languages are spoken should act to prevent such languages from becoming extinct.”
“People’s attitudes are determined more by their immediate situation or surroundings than by any internal characteristic.”
“All nations should help support the development of a global university designed to engage students in the process of solving the world’s most persistent social problems.”
“Governments must ensure that their major cities receive the financial support they need in order to thrive, because it is primarily in cities that a nation’s cultural traditions are preserved and generated.”
“Academic disciplines have become so specialized in recent years that scholars’ ideas reach only a narrow audience. Until scholars can reach a wider audience, their ideas will have little use.”
哭有什么用？
“It is often necessary, even desirable, for political leaders to withhold information from the public.”
“The video camera provides such an accurate and convincing record of contemporary life that it has become a more important form of documentation than written records.”
“The most effective way to understand contemporary culture is to analyze the trends of its youth.”
“A nation should require all its students to study the same national curriculum until they enter college rather than allow schools in different parts of the nation to determine which academic courses to offer.”
“No field of study can advance significantly unless outsiders bring their knowledge and experience to that field of study.”
“It is more important to allocate money for immediate, existing social problems than to spend it on long-term research that might help future generations.”
“Competition is ultimately more beneficial than detrimental to society.”
“We can usually learn much more from people whose views we share than from people whose views contradict our own; disagreement can cause stress and inhibit learning.”
“Most societies do not take their greatest thinkers seriously, even when they claim to admire them.”
“The true value of a civilization is reflected in its artistic creations rather than in its scientific accomplishments.”
“Societies should try to save every plant and animal species, regardless of the expense to humans in effort, time, and financial well-being.”
“An individual’s greatness cannot be judged objectively by his or her contemporaries; the most objective evaluators of a person’s greatness are people who belong to a later time.”
“Although it is easy to respond positively to the work of another person or group, it is far more worthwhile to give negative feedback.”
“Much of the information that people assume is ‘factual’ actually turns out to be inaccurate. Thus, any piece of information referred to as a ‘fact’ should be mistrusted since it may well be proven false in the future.”
“Conformity almost always leads to a deadening of individual creativity and energy.”
“Computers and video technology can make facsimiles of original works such as paintings and historical documents available to everyone. The great advantage of this new technology is that it will enable anyone—not just scholars—to conduct in-depth research without having access to the original works.”
“Encouraging young people to believe that they can accomplish great things if they try hard enough is both misleading and potentially harmful.”
“Most people are taught that loyalty is a virtue. But loyalty—whether to one’s friends, to one’s school or place of employment, or to any institution—is all too often a destructive rather than a positive force.”
“Most people prefer restrictions and regulations to absolute freedom of choice, although they would probably deny such a preference.”
“Although innovations such as video, computers, and the Internet seem to offer schools improved methods for instructing students, these technologies all too often distract from real learning.”
“The purpose of education should be to create an academic environment that is separate from the outside world. This kind of environment is ideal because it allows students to focus on important ideas without being held back by practical concerns.”
“‘Moderation in all things’ is ill-considered advice. Rather, one should say, ‘Moderation in most things,’ since many areas of human concern require or at least profit from intense focus.”
“College students—and people in general—prefer to follow directions rather than make their own decisions. Therefore, colleges should eliminate as many choices as possible in order to offer students clear direction.”
“The best way to learn a new subject or skill is to study small segments or details in great depth rather than to start by trying to develop a sense of the whole.”
“The best way to teach—whether as an educator, employer, or parent—is to praise positive actions and ignore negative ones.”
“To remain vigorous, any academic field needs to be led by truly independent thinkers who are willing to ignore established boundaries and challenge long-standing assumptions.”
“People are mistaken when they assume that the problems they confront are more complex and challenging than the problems faced by their predecessors. This illusion is eventually dispelled with increased knowledge and experience.”
“People often look for similarities, even between very different things, and even when it is unhelpful or harmful to do so. Instead, a thing should be considered on its own terms; we should avoid the tendency to compare it to something else.”
“Censorship is rarely, if ever, justified.”
“Education is primarily a personal matter; it has little to do with school or college.”
“Learning for learning’s sake is an outdated concept. Today, education must serve an ulterior purpose and be directed toward clear goals.”
“The chief benefit of the study of history is to break down the illusion that people in one period of time are significantly different from people who lived at any other time in history.”
“The increase in knowledge is forcing people to specialize. As a result, the distance between fields of specialization has become so vast that specialists in different areas are rarely able to influence each other.”
“Now that computer technology has made possible the rapid accessing of large amounts of factual information, people are less likely than ever to think deeply or originally. They feel unable to compete with—much less contribute to—the quantity of information that is now available electronically.”
“In order for any work of art—whether film, literature, sculpture, or a song—to have merit, it must be understandable to most people.”
“In order to produce successful original work, scholars and scientists must first study the successful work of others to learn what contributions remain to be made.”
“Most important discoveries or creations are accidental: it is usually while seeking the answer to one question that we come across the answer to another.”
“The bombardment of visual images in contemporary society has the effect of making people less able to focus clearly and extensively on a single issue over a long period of time.”
“Society should identify those children who have special talents and abilities and begin training them at an early age so that they can eventually excel in their areas of ability. Otherwise, these talents are likely to remain undeveloped.”
“Too much emphasis has been placed on the need for students to challenge the assertions of others. In fact, the ability to compromise and work with others—that is, the ability to achieve social harmony—should be a major goal in every school.”
“If a goal is worthy, then any means taken to attain it is justifiable.”
“Any decision-whether made by government, by a corporation, or by an individual person-must take into account future conditions more than present conditions.”
“Most people choose a career on the basis of such pragmatic considerations as the needs of the economy, the relative ease of finding a job, and the salary they can expect to make. Hardly anyone is free to choose a career based on his or her natural talents or interest in a particular kind of work.”
“Progress is best made through discussion among people who have contrasting points of view.”
“The way people look, dress, and act reveals their attitudes and interests. You can tell much about a society’s ideas and values by observing the appearance and behavior of its people.”
“Rituals and ceremonies help define a culture. Without them, societies or groups of people have a diminished sense of who they are.”
“People are too quick to take action; instead they should stop to think of the possible consequences of what they might do.”
“As societies all over the world have more and more access to new information, the effects on life-long learning can only be positive.”
“We learn through direct experience; to accept a theory without experiencing it is to learn nothing at all.”
“The best way to understand the character of a society is to examine the character of the men and women that the society chooses as its heroes or its heroines.”
“Unlike great thinkers and great artists, the most effective political leaders must often yield to public opinion and abandon principle for the sake of compromise.”
“The purpose of education should be to provide students with a value system, a standard, a set of ideas—not to prepare them for a specific job.”
“The most elusive knowledge is self-knowledge, and it is usually acquired through solitude, rather than through interaction with others.”
“Truly innovative ideas do not arise from groups of people, but from individuals. When groups try to be creative, the members force each other to compromise and, as a result, creative ideas tend to be weakened and made more conventional. Most original ideas arise from individuals working alone.”
“Instead of encouraging conformity, society should show greater appreciation of individual differences.”
“The material progress and well-being of one country are necessarily connected to the material progress and well-being of all other countries.”
“Technology creates more problems than it solves, and may threaten or damage the quality of life.”
“The goal of politics should not be the pursuit of an ideal, but rather the search for common ground and reasonable consensus.”
“The best preparation for life or a career is not learning to be competitive, but learning to be cooperative.”
“It is not the headline-making political events but the seldom-reported social tranformations that have the most lasting significance.”
“Success in any realm of life comes more often from taking chances or risks than from careful and cautious planning.”
把时间当作朋友
感谢沈璜同学
《把时间当作朋友》新版封面设计征稿
《把时间当作朋友》阅读说明
《把时间当作朋友》第三版初稿已可下载
《把时间当作朋友》再版前言
必要的功课：预演
远离蠢货
完美永不存在
验收机制
时间不可管理
何为“心智”
《把时间当作朋友》epub版
三个习得技能的基本要素
关于《把时间当作朋友》电子版
《把时间当作朋友》电子版
2010年1月9日北京东方网力科技有限公司讲座
有图有真相
《把时间当作朋友》签名版发布
《把时间当作朋友》与《少有人走的路》
为什么误打误撞阴差阳错地成功的人那么多？
《把时间当作朋友》第四刷新版书签
《把时间当作朋友》插图粥粥版
谢谢黄集伟老师题字——“把时间当作朋友”
《把时间当作朋友》勘误贴
感谢杨小勤
谢谢粥粥（胖兔子）
《把时间当作朋友》上架时间延期三天
《把时间当作朋友》思维导图
《把时间当作朋友》的新封面
贱可贱非常贱——非要被吓死才肯改么？
《把时间当作朋友》序：朱敏、俞敏洪
《把时间当作朋友》终于交稿……
人生没有“Ctrl + Z”
提高效率的诀窍：分辨任务属性——并行与串行（四）
提高效率的诀窍：分辨任务属性——并行与串行（三）
提高效率的诀窍：分辨任务属性——并行与串行（二）
提高效率的诀窍：分辨任务属性——并行与串行（一）
笔记一则：《现代汉语词典》里没有“心智”这个词
提高效率的最有效方法——克服拖拉
最节省时间的方法——学习
简单有效的时间管理方法——关注具体步骤（HOW）
把时间当作朋友
2.c 控制自己的情绪
7.d 越早醒悟越好
7.c 成功的核心素质——耐心
7.b 提前准备的好处
7.a 万事皆可提前准备
6.i 我们对时间和金钱的误解
6.h 时间不一定就是金钱
6.g 停止自卑
6.f 最浪费时间的句型：“要是……就好了！”
6.e 不要浪费时间去“证明自己”
6.d 开源节流
6.c 关于迟到
6.b 把生活节奏调整得慢一点
6.a 关于效率
5.i 关于“成功学”的最后一点啰唆
5.h 打造人脉不如打造自己
5.g 不要相信“运气”，更不要相信“机不可失失不再来”
5.f 留心成功者说的话
5.e 最浪费时间的错觉——我是独一无二的
5.d 强调努力是可笑的
5.c 成功学的方法缺陷——个案分析
5.b 成功的定义——“成功学”的核心缺陷
5.a 人人都能成功——鬼才相信
4.f 学会记笔记
4.e 学会考试
4.d 正确对待老师
4.c 关于自学能力
4.b 摆脱经验的局限
4.a 获得知识的基本途径
3.g 计划，还是不计划，是个问题
3.f 使用列表减少失误
3.e 审计时间开销
3.d 制作时间预算
3.c 开始记录时间开销
3.b 最好的工具——纸笔
3.a 精确感知时间
2.d 推迟满足感
2.b 控制自己的大脑
2.a 起点
1.b 心智力量的差异
1.a 了解心智的力量
0.所有人的困境
普通人的当众讲话技能
我也有话要说（四十）：如何克服紧张？
何来激情？
我也有话要说（三十九）什么时候说结论
我也有话要说（三十八）如果你要用VA，出门前请注意……
“我也有话要说”第五次活动
“我也有话要说”（三十七）成为能说那话的人
“我也有话要说”第四次活动
安替：如何使用最简单的语言演讲
“我也有话要说”第三次活动
我也有话要说（三十六）废话！废话？
我也有话要说（三十五）日常谈话是最好的练习机会
“我也有话要说”第二次活动
我也有话要说（三十四）控制自己的讲话范围
我也有话要说（三十三）使用视觉辅助工具的第一原则：简单
我也有话要说（三十二）小心被辅助工具绑架
我也有话要说（三十一）主角与配角
我也有话要说（三十）要说清楚“是什么”更要说清楚“不是什么”
我也有话要说（二十九）记录听众的反应
我也有话要说（二十八）只不过是换一种说法而已
我也有话要说（二十七）慎用名言警句（或其它陈词滥调）
我也有话要说（二十六）为了学会讲，要先学会听
我也有话要说（二十五）证明他人错误≠证明自己正确
我也有话要说（二十四）向听众提问时要注意什么？
我也有话要说（二十三）最好的互动方式——让听众思考
我也有话要说（二十二）新手最难掌握的重要技巧：停顿
我也有话要说（二十一）让语言生动起来并不难
我也有话要说（二十）制造效果的另外一个小技巧：重复
我也有话要说（十九）制造效果的利器——契诃夫之枪
我也有话要说（十八）把一切证据都准备好
我也有话要说（十七）听众喜欢什么样的人？
我也有话要说（十六）听众最关心什么？
我也有话要说（十五）做一个值得信赖的人
我也有话要说（十四）：小心听众的情绪
我也有话要说（十三）不要指望听众能够自动与你感同身受
7月10日，奇遇花园，“我也有话要说”俱乐部第一次活动
我也有话要说（十二）只说自己真正相信的话
我也有话要说（十一）使用你自己的语言
我也有话要说（十）更可能是你自己没说清楚
我也有话要说（九）你有99%的可能性被误解
我也有话要说（八）一次只说一件事
我也有话要说（七）什么元素最重要？
我也有话要说（六）你想干什么？
我也有话要说（五）怎样开头？
我也有话要说（四）你我皆凡人
我也有话要说（三）听众到底要什么？
我也有话要说（二）信任你的听众
我也有话要说（一）千万别装
求职前最好学会的那些事儿
梦想有时也许只不过是陷阱
如何拨打工作电话？
留学问答
关于Liberal Arts Colleges——来自Nancy的感悟
留学申请问答：课外活动到底有多重要？
SAT模考辅助程序改版
谁敢“世人皆醉我独醒”？
TOEFL考试遇到惨案应该怎么办？
应该什么时候开始准备留学申请文书？——等很多人明白过来的时候都已经太晚了
ETS这么不负责任实在是过分！
TOEFL/SAT/GRE/GMAT成绩有多重要？
这问题问的
留学申请：什么时候开始准备申请文书才好
留学申请误区详解：ED/EA的录取率真的相对更高么？
留学申请：文书创作策略（系列）——从最差学校开始做起
托福成绩个位数惨案调查
可惜无法从头再来
金融危机对留学申请的影响
收获季节—2008年成功申请美国大学名单(陆续更新中)
托福词汇题精选
GMAC取消84名作弊考生成绩
美国本科申请全攻略（序）
TOEFL核心词汇21天突破-简明网络版
关于北美留学考试的应试顺序问题
看看电影
3:10 to Yuma (2007)
J’ai toujours rêvé d’être un gangster (2008)
桃姐（2012）
抄得再好也是烂货，抄得越好越是烂货
钟无艳(2001)
Blade Runner (1982)
The Adventures of Tintin
神奇的大脑
算是流水帐
谁跟我一起去参加PLOGit博客聚会活动
有点累
2009年春节很安静
两年，终于自由了……
TOEFL iBT词汇专题突破
10月4日 香港帝景酒店-李笑來名校申請講座信息
浙大讲座
上海讲座行程
土鳖
删除两则留言
活宝
惊喜
快乐是一种本领
农大（二）
招商银行个人专业版抢走我10小时
糖尿病常识
谢谢您的好意，但请不要向我推荐中医好吗
“高血糖”的基本典型症状——预防糖尿病的基本常识
胰岛素的传奇故事（五）
胰岛素的传奇故事（四）
胰岛素的传奇故事（三）
胰岛素的传奇故事（二）
胰岛素的传奇故事（一）
美国大学
Haverford College
Coastal Carolina University
University of Texas–Arlington
Washington and Lee University
College for Creative Studies
Northern Arizona University
Pepperdine University
University of Bridgeport
Paine College
Ball State University
Spalding University
University of Maryland–College Park
University of Massachusetts–Boston
Jackson State University
Bloomfield College
Russell Sage College
Whitman College
Pennsylvania State University–University Park
Thomas Edison State College
University of the Pacific
Eckerd College
Knox College
Coe College
University of Louisiana–Lafayette
College of the Holy Cross
Michigan Technological University
Washington University in St. Louis
Cornell University
Wells College
Cleveland State University
University of Oregon
Temple University
Allen University
Texas Christian University
Sweet Briar College
Cleveland Institute of Art
Hendrix College
University of California–Berkeley
Goldey Beacom College
Brigham Young University–Hawaii
Hanover College
Lindsey Wilson College
Atlantic Union College
Albion College
Tougaloo College
Rutgers, the State University of New Jersey–Newark
St. Lawrence University
University of North Carolina–Chapel Hill
美国大学本科申请DIY简明指南
DIY5
DIY4
DIY3
DIY2
DIY1
xiaolai
为什么我从来不向身边的人“大力推广比特币”？
比特币慈善募捐——芦山地震赈灾（最后落实阶段）
我这一辈子学过的最有用的东西
意外的好运其实可以创造
比特币慈善募捐——芦山地震赈灾（第三阶段）
比特币慈善募捐——芦山地震赈灾（第二阶段）
比特币慈善募捐——芦山地震赈灾
knewone是怎样成为剁手站的？
蜜蜂与苍蝇——各有各的模式
关于PlugKit
BitCoin这个虚拟货币为什么实际上可能更可靠？
如何获得knewone.com的“每日礼品”？
微信为什么没有iPad版？
只要东西真好，人们总是很乐于分享
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原来Disqus也被部分墙掉了……
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找到一个好用的系统，还没来得及高兴几天，就被GFW干掉了。肏。
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